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Are you often taken advantage of? Have you been worried about having boundaries? We discuss all things boundaries today, so this is for you. In this episode I talk with Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. We dive into dysfunctional boundaries, boundary violations, co-dependency, dealing with the urge to fix people, and so much more.
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Questions I asked:
- How did you become the boundary boss?
- What would be an example of someone who has unhealthy boundaries?
- How do you deal with unhealthy situations?
- What are typical boundary violations?
- How do we figure out disordered emotional boundaries?
- How do you deal with people-pleasing?
- What is the Boundary Bill of Rights?
- What’s a boundary blueprint?
- Why do we need to make sure we make time for self-care?
- How do we stop trying to help people who don’t deserve it?
- How do we stop being a fixer?
- How do we navigate finding self-love?
- How do we deal with looking for external validation?
Topics Discussed:
- Boundaries
- Codependency
- Self-Esteem.
- Having good boundaries.
- Being brave.
- Your VIP section.
- People pleasing.
- Being a fixer
Quotes from the show:
- “You have the right to say Yes or No to someone without feeling guilty.” @terri_cole @SisterhoodSweat
- “When you have disordered boundaries, you take on the emotional states of others.” @terri_cole @SisterhoodSweat
- “You have the right to course-correct anytime.” @terri_cole @SisterhoodSweat
- “Being uncomfortable is fleeting and you’re not that fragile.” @terri_cole @SisterhoodSweat
- “We end up feeling abused because we didn’t get our own needs met.” @terri_cole @SisterhoodSweat
- “You have the right to talk true, be seen, and live free.” @terri_cole @SisterhoodSweat
How you can stay in touch with Terri:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/terri_cole
- FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/TerriColeLCSW/
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/terricoleny
- Podcast: https://terricole.com/itunes
- Grab Your Book: https://boundarybossbook.com/
- Real Love Revolution Course: https://terricole.com/rlr
- Free Gift: https://boundaryboss.me/sisterhood
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